The Oracle
The 3-5-9 Internal Trine: A Heart Married to a Purpose is Free.
To find happiness you will need to develop a contemplative approach to life.
This is not a passive state, but a deeply considered approach that thinks before acting.
What you will need to understand here is the Ancient Principle of the Three Moons.
This Principle is simply the practice patience when you do not understand a situation of a thing.
Slowly understanding grows, like the moon growing from the new moon to the full moon.
When the light is clear and you can see what is in front of you, you know the way to go in any given situation.
The 3-5-9 Trine:
A Heart Married to a Purpose is Free.
To find happiness you will need to develop a contemplative approach to life. This is not a passive state, but a deeply considered approach that thinks before acting. What you will need to understand here is the Ancient Principle of the Three Moons.
This Principle is simply the practice patience when you do not understand a situation of a thing. Slowly understanding grows, like the moon growing from the new moon to the full moon. When the light is clear and you can see what is in front of you, you know the way to go in any given situation.
The principle is: Act only when you feel you have understood the situation. If you do this all will work well for you. However, the reverse also applies. Act before you understand your position, and things will almost always go wrong.
Consider the image of the Crusader who was told to kill everyone in the village, because they were heathens. At the end of the day, he has done the bidding of his superiors, even when he knows it is wrong, and now he must look at himself in the mirror.
How do you deal with it? Generally, faced with the impossible paradox of doing what you have to do even though it betrays your instincts, you cut off. You switch off the emotions, and learn to live each day just going through the motions.
This is the wife in the loveless marriage, the man in the dead end job, and the child going to a school they hate. You become a master of cutting off, and this gives you a professional look so you get a good job. You may not like the job, but you will do it anyway and what is more you expect others to live up to your standards and do the same.
As a result, people may feel intimidated, and will tend to keep you at an emotional distance. If you can accept others for what they are, and not for what they "should" be, life will go much easier for you.
This specific aspect is generally creative, and often obsessive. You may feel the need to excessively question what is in front of you, seeking to clarify the situation. You will mentally and emotionally stand away from the concern at hand in order to get a better look.
Because of this, you may find in yourself a tendency to alienate others rather than embrace them... This is an excellent trait when there is a job to be done, and you are the foreman, but otherwise it socially unacceptable.
The problems arise when this "cutting off" aspect that goes along with this Trine takes over as a personality trait. If this aspect cannot be turned off a great deal of loneliness and misery will occur in your life.
However, the facts remain that we don’t see others as they are, but how we THINK they are. Furthermore, the strong mind that generally comes with this aspect finds it difficult to let go of its own cherished perceptions, and so your opinions will tend to hold sway over your emotions.
Your actions will therefore inevitably come from a point of misunderstanding, and a good deal of trial and difficulty will result. This way of living tends to create agreements only with those who choose to share your thought/belief bias, and so the tendency here is to establish cliques.
Can you see how the Three Moons are at work in a thousand ways in your life? You need to rise above the “censor” inside yourself, that part of you that drives your attitudes, if would know what it is like to be free. Get up and leave your social circle on regular occasions.
Go places, and tell no one where you are going, and just watch the people passing by. Break the habit of getting emotional support and approval from others.
There is a real danger of becoming circular in your thought process, so that in time your creative energy will stagnate. Frustration will be the result, sometimes to the point of suicide. This may be actual suicide or slowly through developing some fatal illness, or the self inflicted injury from a car crash, etc.
The point here, if you would be free, is simply this … Let go of your present circles. Go out, and find ways to enjoy yourself on your own and allow life to re-educate your heart with the new experiences it will bring. When you open up and allow change, change itself will create your next destiny.
Your motto is: The mill wheels of the Gods grind slowly, but exceedingly fine.
Remember: You are not life’s policeman. Let it all go, find your own adventures, and start every day afresh.